Completely happy New 12 months 2026 everybody! With one other 12 months wrapped up, I believed I’d do a 2025 12 months in overview so I can sooner or later look again fondly as an outdated man. General, I give the 12 months an A for effort, which is all I can actually management. Sadly, the outcome didn’t match the hassle, as I give it a B minus, possibly even a C plus.
The principle purpose for the B minus is ongoing household points that negatively affected my spirits. I’m naturally a cheerful and joyful individual – a steady-state 8 out of 10. However for a lot of the complete 12 months, I felt quite a lot of grey clouds and wet days hanging overhead.
The factor is, even in case you are comfortable, when somebody in your loved ones is underneath duress, your happiness will inevitably decline. From all the things from growing old to taking good care of kids and sick mother and father, the happiness dip for the sandwich technology is actual.
Getting into The Trough Of The Happiness Curve
Simply have a look at this nice chart summarizing seven main surveys of 1.3 million randomly sampled individuals throughout 51 international locations. Between ages 45 and 55 is the place happiness is lowest – and my spouse and I are 45 and 48.
I wrote this put up first earlier than on the lookout for happiness curves to see the place we stand. It’s comforting that we’re not alone.
However gosh, I believed I might be capable of keep away from this trough by retiring earlier. In actual fact, I wrote a put up stating the most effective purpose to retire early is bigger happiness sooner and for longer. That section lasted about 11-12 years, nevertheless it has now pale.
2025 actually made me respect, as soon as once more, how cash can’t purchase happiness after your fundamental wants are met. I used to be pissed off this 12 months that, irrespective of how onerous I attempted, the melancholy nonetheless lingered.
It’s unhappy to understand that even in case you reside in a pleasant home, have minimal debt, have your well being, don’t really feel caught at work, and have comfortable children, you possibly can nonetheless really feel down typically. This disconnect additionally feels embarrassing, particularly in case you’ve grown up in a growing nation with an amazing quantity of poverty and inequality.
Everyone knows the options: observe gratitude every day, take steps to get rid of regrets, stroll and train every day, scale back need, and decrease expectations Nonetheless, apart from always displaying up, there’s typically nothing you are able to do when uncontrollable circumstances happen.
Now on to my 2025 overview, categorized by Investments, Household, and Ikigai (purpose for being).
Public Investments – Grade A
General, 2025 was a strong 12 months financially thanks to a different bull market. My mixed public fairness portfolio rose by about 22%. The explanation for its 5.5% outperformance in comparison with the S&P 500 was as a consequence of my chubby positioning in Google, Tesla, and Nvidia. On the draw back, my shares in Apple, Amazon, Netflix, and Nike underperformed the S&P 500.
That is now three years in a row of 20%+ returns, which looks like a lottery win after a troublesome 2022 (-24% for my tech-heavy equities). The after-tax positive aspects alone are capable of pay for about 4 years of regular dwelling bills for my household of 4 right here in San Francisco.
The issue with a 22% return is that it took quite a lot of effort to get there as an energetic investor. And albeit, I believed I had returned much more earlier than crunching the numbers. In my thoughts, I believed I used to be up nearer to twenty-eight% after shopping for the dip in March and April. Nonetheless, that was solely with my taxable brokerage account, which at the very least, is my most necessary portfolio.
If I had simply invested all my cash in an S&P 500 index and completed nothing, I might have made about 16.5%. I’m undecided if the hassle to make an additional 5.5% is value it, particularly since I may have simply underperformed like I did in 2022. However I keep energetic as a result of some huge cash is at stake as DUPs with no regular energetic earnings.
Going via the whipsaw of the April tariff tantrums, adopted by attempting to always work out whether or not the financial system would actually be OK amid stagflation fears, took a toll on my psychological vitality. However I want to acknowledge {that a} ~5.5% outperformance has purchased us a bit of over one 12 months of dwelling bills. I simply should be cautious not shedding an excessive amount of this 12 months.
Non-public Investments – Grade A Minus
As for my non-public investments in enterprise debt and enterprise capital, it’s tougher to gauge returns since a lot is illiquid. I do know one 2018 classic enterprise fund holds Rippling, which is doing nice. However the remainder of the closed-end funds stay unclear as many investments are nonetheless within the early stage.
Fundrise Enterprise was a standout performer. It rose over 45%, making it my top-performing fund funding of the 12 months. I had about $150,000 invested initially of 2025, and invested $100,000 on June 20.
In July/August, I additionally determined to reinvest $200,000 value of expiring Treasury payments and open a brand new private account earmarked for my kids’s future. I figured, if I am prepared to speculate over $200,000 in a 529 plan, then I would as properly put money into the very know-how which may make their faculty educations out of date.
My predominant remorse is just not investing extra initially of the 12 months after I had a windfall from promoting a property. However out of self-discipline, I maintain non-public funding allocation to at most 20% of my investable capital.
The explanation I don’t give my non-public investments an A is that one enterprise debt fund (out of three) closed out at a 12% IRR, underperforming the S&P 500. In the meantime, my non-public industrial actual property investments noticed one other flat 12 months, though there are constructive indicators of life.
Bodily Actual Property – Method Too A lot Effort
2025 was the most troublesome 12 months I’ve ever had as an actual property investor.
The principle purpose is that I had three tenant turnovers out of 4 properties, which required my spouse and me to arrange every property both on the market or for hire. Then I did one other reworking job. The time, coordination, and emotional vitality concerned had been vital.
Property #1: Most Latest Major Residence Turned Rental
The primary property required about two months of preparation and finally bought by way of a preemptive provide. I hit my reasonable goal gross sales worth and felt terribly relieved that we bought it, particularly after the devastating January fires in Southern California. It was an ideal property with ocean views, however the rental yield was low because of the excessive worth level and the necessity to handle 4 tenants every year was annoying.
After this sale, which solely had a 13-day shut, I believed the remainder of the 12 months can be straightforward road with regard to property administration. Oh, how improper I used to be!
Property #2: Summer season Rework Job
Given we determined to go to Hawaii for 5 weeks for summer time college and see my mother and father, I figured it was time to transform the uncared for two-bedroom in-law unit related to my mother and father’ home. It was my aunt’s outdated dwelling area, and it hadn’t been inhabited for over 13 years. The place was piled with stuff, crawling with bugs, and had damaged taps and defective wiring in every single place.
I believed the transform would take two or three weeks and price possibly $25,000. But it surely ended up taking 4 weeks whereas I used to be there and one other week after I returned to make the place totally livable, with furnishings, a fridge, and home equipment.
After gut-remodeling a property from 2019–2022, I swore I’d by no means transform one other property once more. It’s a horrible course of, and I might fortunately pay a premium for a totally transformed house. Nonetheless, I felt my summer time in Hawaii was a now-or-never second to get to work as a result of no one else would after my aunt handed a number of years in the past.
The silver lining is that I obtained the place completed and totally furnished, offering my spouse and kids with a extra comfy dwelling association throughout our 10-day winter vacation journey. That mentioned, I did virtually burn down my mother and father’ home twice in a single week as a consequence of defective wiring for the dryer. Ah, extra stress.
Property #3: Partial Rental Turned Full Rental
After returning from Hawaii in July, I wanted to relaxation as a result of the journey was additionally onerous on my spouse. I additionally felt unsettled because the eating room furnishings, fridge, and washer and dryer weren’t going to reach till early September, after which had been pushed again till the tip of November.
Sadly, throughout our time away, our long-time tenants since 2019 at one other property discovered one other place to reside. They had been strong renters who occupied the upstairs portion of a home with two bedrooms and one rest room. They needed a complete single-family house as a consequence of having a child.
To accommodate, earlier than we went to Hawaii, I provided to hire them the downstairs portion as properly, giving them three bedrooms, two loos, and an workplace. Maintain df, Even after providing a reduction to comparable market rents, they determined to hire a smaller home farther south for much less. No downside, however not best for me.
The method took about 5 weeks to search out new tenants. As soon as once more, we needed to clear, paint, backyard, and repair some random issues in preparation for brand spanking new tenants. I additionally hosted a number of non-public showings for events. Thankfully, we discovered an ideal household who’s respectful and had beforehand owned property within the space. They relocated again to San Francisco as a consequence of larger enterprise demand after shifting away throughout COVID.
The constructive of our tenants shifting out was our semi-passive earnings elevated by $3,500 a month. This was because of charging market hire after a number of years of undercharging by ~$1,000/month and renting the complete home as an alternative of simply the upstairs for an additional ~$2,500 / month.
Property #4: The Largest Rental That Was Hardest To Hire Out
Lastly, I believed I used to be completed after three property turnovers! However no, the true property gods had extra work for me to do. Solely a month after discovering new tenants, I obtained one other electronic mail from one other set of tenants giving their 45-day discover. Apparently, that they had already relocated to Colorado and had been solely returning sometimes. This was a shock, particularly since their children attended a college simply blocks away they usually had moved in solely 15 months earlier.
As soon as once more, I spent about six weeks coordinating cleansing, repairs, and the tenant search. This time it was tougher. The hire was a 35% increased worth level than my different rental, which diminished the rental pool. Additional, I used to be looking through the off-peak months of October and November, a part of the worst time of the 12 months to search out renters.
Thankfully, 5 weeks after I revealed my first advert on Craigslist, a girl reached out saying she and her husband had been relocating to San Francisco for work. One labored at a Sequence C non-public tech startup, and the opposite at one of the well-liked AI LLM corporations at this time, which I’m a shareholder in via the Fundrise.
To my shock, the couple was prepared to pay $10,000 a month for a five-bedroom, four-bathroom house. Given their salaries and fairness compensation, the hire was really fairly reasonably priced. They needed two house places of work and area for a house health club.
As a result of these new tenants, hire for this transformed house went from $9,000 a month for 12 months in 2024-2025, to $9,200 a month for 3 months in 2025, and now $10,000 a month from November 2025 onwards.
Strong Complete Rental Earnings Development
General, I boosted my semi-passive earnings by about $4,300 a month, offered there are not any unexpected bills. I bought a property bought in 2020 for roughly a 20% web revenue after taxes and charges and reinvested many of the proceeds into private and non-private fairness. Then I made made a two-bedroom in-law unit very nice for all relations to remain.
Consequently, I give the true property returns an A, however the effort required an F. I really feel like I did 4 years value of standard actual property administration in a single 12 months.
Consequently, I’m decided to promote one other property after 2027 after I can benefit from the tax-free exclusion rule. Within the meantime, I hope my tenants benefit from the properties and stay self-sufficient. Actual property was my biggest supply of monetary stress in 2025.
The industrial actual property market additionally appears to be waking up from its lengthy slumber. It’s been a tricky slog since inflation surged and the Fed started climbing rates of interest aggressively in 2022. However valuations at the moment are extraordinarily compelling in comparison with the inventory market, and I’m beginning to make investments extra in non-public actual property once more.
Household Dynamics – Grade B Minus
As a result of some advanced points affecting one beloved member of the family particularly onerous, a grey cloud hung over my spouse and me all year long. I attempted to be a rock by conserving our funds strong, operating Daddy Day Camp each weekend, dropping off and choosing up the children 95% of the time, and at all times being round within the evenings.
My days would usually run from about 5:15 a.m. till 11:30 p.m. as a result of I needed to jot down earlier than the household wakened and after the household had gone to mattress. Sadly, my effort to be a full-time dad didn’t appear to be sufficient. My spouse has so much on her plate, is doing the most effective she will be able to, and is genuinely adored by our youngsters. I’m additionally studying the right way to be extra empathetic to issues and organic modifications outdoors our management.
The excellent news is that we’ve got the monetary assets to offer the most effective remedy and care potential. One other shiny spot is that our youngsters proceed to develop and thrive. They love their college, have mates, and obtain an unlimited quantity of high quality time from each mother and father.
In significantly, I spent quite a lot of time instructing each children tennis and swimming. They now have decent-looking forehands and backhands, together with improved freestyle strokes. In complete, I gave every youngster at the very least 35 one-on-one classes, every lasting one to one-and-a-half hours.
Instructing your individual children requires persistence, inner prayers for persistence, and sheer willpower. However seeing seen progress has been extremely rewarding.
It’s deeply satisfying to have the ability to help my household and allow my spouse to be 10 years free from full-time work after serving to her negotiate a severance package deal again in 2015. Nonetheless, the burden is getting heavier because of persistent elevated inflation, pointless needs, and hedonic adaptation. I have to make changes with a purpose to final.
Ikigai (Purpose For Being) – Grade A Plus
As soon as you allow your day job, you’ll probably want to search out one thing artistic or purposeful to do – your ikigai. I extremely doubt you’d be comfortable solely watching eight hours of TV a day and enjoying pickleball. Personally, I’ve a have to really feel helpful. It additionally feels nice to assist individuals really feel higher and achieve confidence of their funds.
In 2025, I revealed one other 156 articles, 52 newsletters, and roughly 30 podcast episodes. Right here’s a recap of the greatest articles on Monetary Samurai for 2025. What made this significantly gratifying had been two issues.
First was the success of my second nationwide bestseller, Millionaire Milestones: Easy Steps to Seven Figures. It took two years to jot down and numerous hours to market. One of many highlights was narrating the audiobook myself. It was one of the difficult skilled experiences I’ve had.
The problem of the method made me understand how a incapacity or well being subject may take away your means to earn, so please take nothing without any consideration. In case you are wholesome, benefit from your means to supply earlier than it is gone.
Second was sustaining my publishing streak regardless of Google and AI negatively impacting website site visitors. As natural site visitors declined, so did income. However as a result of I genuinely love writing, I saved going anyway. I’ve been anticipating at the present time for 5 years, and now the existential disaster from AI is right here. I do not suppose I am going to ever totally give up.
Shock Video Interview
Lastly, Enterprise Insider launched a enjoyable video interview that includes my household and two others discussing cash classes for elevating kids. The inquiry got here out of the blue and felt like an ideal technique to shut out the 12 months.
As a substitute of paying to take footage and ship out vacation playing cards, I had an Emmy-winning producer attain out and produce a video for us as an alternative.It was an effective way to complete the 12 months and commemorate my mother and father and grandparents.
Cash Is Good, A Completely happy Household Is Far Higher
2025 strengthened a fact I’ve recognized for many years: the window to reside your greatest life doesn’t keep open eternally. That is the principle purpose I give up the need to make most cash at age 34 and left my finance job behind. As soon as your fundamental wants are met, cash now not brings incremental happiness.
Household and mates matter way more. They’re additionally the individuals who can harm us or assist us probably the most. To at the present time, I’m nonetheless attempting to higher perceive my mother and father’ personalities. Particularly, I’m attempting to distinguish how a lot of the way in which they’re is because of their personalities versus their ages. They function so in another way than I do this I discover myself looking for clues after I’m with them.
I’m additionally dwelling life for the primary time and am fascinated to see how our views change over time. You’d suppose we’d at all times be capable of steadily improve our pleasure the extra we obtain, however I’m not seeing this correlation after age 45. As a substitute, the extra we’ve got, the heavier we are inclined to really feel and the extra we endure. Having ever-higher expectations is a recipe for unhappiness.
Genetically, we’re all constructed in another way. Primarily based on twin research, roughly half of our happiness is influenced by genetics, setting a “set level,” whereas the opposite half comes from our intentional actions and life circumstances. So I want to stay aware that we’re all distinctive in our personal methods.
Glad 2025 Is Over, However Additionally Miss The Time We No Longer Have
I’m pleased with my effort and my angle this 12 months. I known as my mother and father often and made time to see them greater than I’ve since I used to be 19. The spotlight was stunning my dad for his eightieth birthday on November 17 by merely showing within the kitchen one afternoon as he got here downstairs.
Well being-wise, I continued to play tennis and pickleball thrice per week and even began going to Sunday evening basketball at my kids’s college. I simply should be cautious to not overdo it to keep away from accidents.
In the long run, I grew our family funds, spent super high quality time with our youngsters, helped many individuals with their funds, and survived a 12 months of persistent grey clouds. On the flip aspect, the time spent actively managing our funds throughout a unstable inventory market, discovering new tenants and consumers, and coping with vital automotive issues on the finish of the 12 months actually beat me up.
A B minus grade feels about proper. However I hope the rays of sunshine will burn off the clouds extra often once more. Subsequent up are my New 12 months’s resolutions for 2026.
How was your 2025? What had been a few of your hits and misses?
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